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Wed, Jan. 3rd, 2007 10:58 pm
How to Last

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henry
henry
#1 Dad
Thu, Jan. 4th, 2007 08:47 pm (UTC)

I have to remember that same-sides thing, that trips me up sometimes.

I think about Lisa all day long; it's torture with her so far away, but I can't stop!


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salsuginous
salsuginous
Sunshine Unit
Thu, Jan. 4th, 2007 08:55 pm (UTC)

It trips me up sometimes too. When I get cranky/defensive, I really have to consciously remember that he is a warm, loving guy who really just wants my love, affection, and acceptance. The exact same things I want from him. I honestly have to stop whatever thoughts I'm having and reason with myself. When I remember that, it's much easier for me to be open and compassionate and stop thinking of him as the bad guy.

I think the two of you are the mostest awesomest. Yay for people being googly over each other after 5 years and hundreds of miles away!


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